Socially I see myself like a Comeleon. I can easly fit into different situations. I like experencing different cultures, I like to taste change.
but there is one social change Iv been confused over.
also, Im not a married man, Never been engaged.
So I dont know all of the views from what Im about to write about.
When I see 2 people at a wedding I see 2 people deeply in love with each other. Merging two family's together into 1.
This happens more today then ever in history.
The bride keeps her last name.
This can create an image of conflict. A individual in the family, separate from her kids, and spouse. Not merging with the family. But simply living with. Socially independent.
This is what I see.
what is the full story? Do these brides fear of leaving their family? Do they not really want to be married? and this was easyer then saying no? Is it a hassel changing your last name? Does it seem like an escape route, just incase?
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